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Our blog is about sharing all versions of birth and opinions on birth trauma and vicarious trauma. Please read these blog posts with care. You might find some of the content challenging. If it’s making you feel uncomfortable, please allow yourself permission to step back and return when you’re ready. For urgent help click here.

 
Bittersweet birthdays: how trauma is intertwined with celebration
Bittersweet birthdays: how trauma is intertwined with celebration

How does your birth trauma affect you when it’s your child’s birthday? This is a repost of Caroline’s story who first shared it as she approached the first anniversary – her daughter’s first birthday – on 4 February 2020. We feel it’s worth publishing again as many women who have experienced some sort of birth trauma will relate to her feelings.

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Caroline Potter Edwards25 November 2020Make Birth Better
Reflections on Covid restrictions from a pregnant midwife
Reflections on Covid restrictions from a pregnant midwife

There’s always two sides to a story. Last week we’ve been reflecting on the different sides of the coin for parents and professionals dealing with Covid restrictions. We’d like to share these words from someone who knows what it’s like on either end: a pregnant midwife.

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Anon24 November 2020Make Birth Better
Without my partner there, my past trauma was triggered
Without my partner there, my past trauma was triggered

After an uneasy road trying to conceive, I finally got a positive test and I couldn’t have been happier. I did not have the smoothest of pregnancies, but luckily I received great care. Until COVID-19 changed everything for us.

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Anon18 November 2020Make Birth Better
We’re all biased: our desires are not universal
We’re all biased: our desires are not universal

This is a story of a positive second birth after earlier trauma. The thing is, I hesitate to use the word ‘positive’ because of the associations I have with it which I found to be quite damaging in my mental preparation for my second birth. In this post I try to explain why.

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Anon10 November 2020Make Birth Better
My healing birth experience during the pandemic

The pandemic causes a challenge for women giving birth. Reports of birth trauma are on the rise because of this. For Emma, this is the more reason to share a positive birth experience. She had a chance to heal after so much harm.

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Emma Davies @makesmallsteps3 November 2020Make Birth Better
Making sure partners still feel involved in scans
Making sure partners still feel involved in scans

With partners not allowed to come to scans and live video recordings not being permitted, how can you still make sure that partners feel involved in their baby’s scans? Tracy shares what they came up with at the Royal Berkshire.

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Tracy, Ultrasound Manager22 October 2020
Covid-19 sped up our plans for partners
Covid-19 sped up our plans for partners

Pre-covid it was acknowledged nationally that more work is required around supporting partners, this was an area we were planning to review at Royal Berkshire. However, the Covid 19 pandemic forced us to consider this topic sooner.

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Commuity Matron21 October 2020
How our bereavement team offered support in new ways
How our bereavement team offered support in new ways

Hayley is a specialist midwife who looks after bereaved parents in the immediacy of their loss. She shares the challenging emotions parents and staff were facing due to Covid-19 restrictions.

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Hayley, Specialist Midwife20 October 2020
Collaborative working benefits everyone
Collaborative working benefits everyone

The work of Maternity Voices Partnerships (MVP) is all about listening to women and using their feedback to bring positive change in the service. Because of the pandemic, this came to the fore.

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Emma, Chair of Reading MVP20 October 2020
Our battle with Covid restrictions
Our battle with Covid restrictions

Inevitably coronavirus restrictions have been challenging our hospital trust. But we had a strong focus: we were committed to ensure that mothers could bring a supporter with them when they gave birth.

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Jane - Obstetrician19 October 2020
“I couldn’t come to terms with how we were treated”

Guest blogger Charley shares her heartbreaking story on losing her baby at 16 weeks. During this time, the doctors were very cold and not empathetic at all. The pain of this experience will never be forgotten.

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Charley Dixon @inspiredmamauk14 October 2020
I've turned my hell into a heartfelt mission
I've turned my hell into a heartfelt mission

Carys shares bits of the most horrendous period of her life and how her experience led her to a heartfelt mission to screen and improve management of PTSD within the physiotherapy world and beyond.

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Carys Hansed5 October 2020
I hope no one goes through what I went through
I hope no one goes through what I went through

I was born and raised in Sweden, just not treated like a proper Swedish citizen when I gave birth. I’m sharing my story because I want people to be aware of what racism does. I just wish no one goes through what I went through.

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Anon1 October 2020Make Birth Betterbirth trauma, systemic racism, postnatal ptsd
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